Colossians 4:6 AMP
6Let your speech at all times be gracious (pleasant and winsome), seasoned [as it were] with salt, [so that you may never be at a loss] to know how you ought to answer anyone [who puts a question to you].
There is a war going on and there is a message; if only most christians knew Christ. The truth and simply being real should trample 'churchianity'.